Joy

"Experience is a brutal teacher. But you learn. By God, you learn." -- C.S.Lewis

Everything I've ever read by this man has changed me in some small way. He just GOT IT - what it means to be human. He figured it out, not on his own, and not without heartache, but he learned. By God he learned.

Do a search on this man and find out more about him. Then read one of his books. My favorite is The Screwtape Letters.